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“Oops Barcelona”, the ultimate swingers club: report and customer reviews

Saturday night. Lisa and I get off our taxi. The area is easily accessible by car and parking does not seem much of a challenge. We just thought it safer to take a taxi, as we are not too familiar with moving around Barcelona.

This is the most elegant district in the Catalan capital: Pedralbes, and we are about to access what has become, in a very short time, the most luxurious and reputed swingers club in the whole of Spain: Oops Barcelona, a venue which seems to be on the way to challenge the hegemony of the Dutch Fun4Two as the best swingers club in Europe. oops meilleur club libertin echangiste barcelone images espagne europe

The mere sight of the building is already breathtaking. We seem to find it extremely exciting that the luxurious modernist mansion located before us, with that careful and elegant illumination, is actually housing the club we are so eager to find more about. Very soon we start to satisfy our curiosity. We access the building finding ourselves right at the cloakroom area, where we are kindly informed on the entry fee and what it includes. This is a Saturday night, so the price is 50 Euros per couple, including four long-drinks and locker use. We are given a magnetic bracelet to open the locker, identify our jackets at the cloakroom, and register the number of drinks we finally have. Quite a futuristic start…

A heavy curtain then makes way for the venue itself, leading us straight into the bar area, where several rows of sofas unmistakably suggest its suitability for the beginning of games. Without moving from this ground floor, we also inspect the dark-room and the entrance to the disco, to which we will arrive after going along a broad and beautiful corridor that will pass through a lovely garden with a pool, very suitable for the summertime action. oops best swingers club Barcelona pictures photos spain europe

The disco is great: fully equipped with bar, sofas, seats, tables… Everything perfectly prepared for the space where most of the couples gather and negotiate all sorts of dirty businesses. There is even a small sado-room discretely situated under the staircase through which we will gain the first floor, where we find the locker-room. The lockers are impeccably arranged, each one containing a beach wrap for the ladies, loose-fitting trousers for the gents, a couple of towels, two pairs of flip-flops and a small toilet bag with two toothbrushes, toothpaste and mouthwash.

There is also a room with a large bed for about six persons, showers and toilets. Still going up all straight ahead we find another couple of rooms: One of them exhibits a truly huge bed clearly conceived for large scale sex. The other offers another quite impressive bed with a magnificent panorama of the city.swingers clubs Barcelona night sex

Once again we take a staircase that, on this occasion, will take us to the VIP area: a sort of large room with its own bar, seats and sofas. There is also a corridor with three beds separated by curtains, and an additional big bed from where we behold Barcelona from a different perspective. From the bar we access a lovely terrace. As we were told, this whole VIP area can be hired for exclusive use in private parties, and there is even no need to go through the rest of the venue to get to it: there is an elevator close to the main entrance that directly takes the guests into this particular oasis.

Anyhow, Lisa and I hadn’t gone to “Oops Barcelona” from Madrid to just admire the impressive setting we had been moving around for almost an hour. So yeah, you guessed, quite soon the few clothes we were still taking on started to bother us as some verbal (and non-verbal) communication with other couples led us to test some of the beds in a less visual manner.

I must say that the crowd gathering at Oops is extremely varied in all respects. Couples of different ages, many locals from Barcelona as well as  a relevant number of national and international visitors tend to create quite a stimulating atmosphere where it is difficult not to find what you are looking for. Some of the people we met also gave us some very useful information on what this wonderful club has meant to the Barcelona swinger community.clubs echangistes libertins barcelone sexe nuit

Paula says: “This is by far the best swingers club I have ever been to, even though we cannot complain about the rest of the offer we have in Barcelona. Anyway, since we came here for the first time it is difficult to find us elsewhere… We have also been to some private parties in Oops and, although different, the atmosphere is also great”.

Mireia: “Our favourite club in Barcelona used to be “Events”, but being in the outskirts of the city it finally had to close. So right now I really think Oops is the best swingers club in Barcelona, in close competition with “Training Pedralbes”, which is trailing slightly behind as the facilities are not this good. Anyway, we like changing so we are always visiting different clubs. I must admit though that the Oops staff are really wonderful and the place is glamorous indeed”.

Albert: “We loved it since the first time we came. The atmosphere is great, the facilities indescribable, the decoration extremely elegant… Also the staff members are really nice. So ever since we discovered Oops we have not been much interested in visiting other clubs here in Barcelona, although there are quite a few”.

Sandra: “There is no other club like this one all over Barcelona, and the people who come here are usually very good-looking…”.

It therefore looks like any swinger couple visiting Barcelona should check it out for themselves…

Oops Barcelona Swingers Club
Calle Anglí 69, Barcelona
Ph: (0034)93.667.78.15
Website
e-mail: info@oopsbarcelona.com
Open: From Thursday to Sunday all year round.
Admission policy: Only couples and single ladies.
Dress code: Elegant, sexy, dominant… (just avoid vulgarity!). 


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“Spice Lanzarote”: a swingers resort in the mainstream media

I have already praised on this blog the remarkable and quite ground-breaking marketing policy performed by Spice Lanzarote, probably the best swingers hotel and resort in Europe. And that is particularly laudable given the fact that most swinging places, still today, absolutely ignore the great importance of finding effective ways to reach their audience and convey to them what a proper swinger environment can provide a couple: relax, pleasure, health, a far deeper insight into oneself and the partner, as well as a wonderful improvement in the quality of the relationship between the two.

You can see below an excellent interview with Tracy Isted (Spice Lanzarote director) at one of the most successful tv shows of ITV channel in the UK. As you will have the chance of ascertaining, most of the questions are based on the ignorance and prejudices that still prevail about swinging among much of our society. Tracy, for her part, answers them all proving a great talent as a communicator, thanks to which the concept of “swinging” is explained to a heterogeneous audience most naturally. I especially like when she says: “It is the woman who is in control”, which is completely true.

For those of you who want to find out more about “Spice Lanzarote”, check out this highly motivating video about this fantastic resort located in a fairy-tale island.


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The taboo of online dating in Spain

One of the wonderful achievements the Internet has brought forward is the possibility of getting two people together who would, otherwise, have ignored each other’s existence.
Too often, thinking about the wonderful experiences I have lived thanks to the net, I realize that my life (and particularly my sex life) would have been much poorer without this technological achievement which, like most technological achievements, can be extremely profitable for any human being when used properly.

We live in a world of appearances though: we must conceal that we love sex, we must conceal that we masturbate, we must conceal that we feel attraction for someone, we must conceal that we visit swingers clubs, we must conceal any inopportune erection in a nude beach, and we must indeed conceal that we have ever used the Internet for any sort of dating. In a word, doing something any mentally healthy person should do is often collectively regarded as sick.

In that particular regard, Spain is as full of prejudices a country as any other from the western world, but there is one prejudice that I find especially persistent in this country and seems to be deeply rooted in its culture: the prejudice of online dating. Although to be fully honest I should say it is quite a European prejudice indeed. Just compare the huge difference with the USA in terms of using online dating tools, success in its use, and –most of all- social acceptance of online dating as a perfectly natural way of establishing all sorts of relationships between people.

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The net can be a gateway to your deepest sexual fantasies

It is quite obvious anyway that what each person looks for through online dating can be extremely varied: Some look for just a friendship that could be leading to something else, some look for love and romance, and some simply just look for different sorts of sexual experiences. Needless to say though that single ladies who have a true interest in online dating have to be extremely careful when meeting a man for the first time as, true as it is that many of them are usually polite and reliable, there can always be exceptions.

One of the best encounters I have ever had through online dating was with a lovely American lady from Pennsylvania, with whom I keep regularly in touch and meet whenever she returns to Madrid (about once a year). My experience with her has provided me a very thorough insight of what online dating can represent for a woman willing to fulfil her deepest sexual desires. She has always been really interested in this sort of encounters; which does not mean at all that she has been meeting men too often through this procedure. In fact, she is extremely demanding about the impression a man has to convey to her before accepting a date of this kind.

This woman is extremely beautiful, very well-educated, with a strong personality and a very clear approach to sex: she is a non-monogamous person who achieves extreme sexual arousal by meeting men for the first time surrounded by an intensely erotic background. The way in which she approaches online dating can be quite interesting for many women: She normally performs a previous analysis on which men she might find interesting through the ads they publish or the responses she gets to her ads; after which she engages in a correspondence with the candidates that usually involves exchanging pictures. One of the conditions she imposes on any possible partner is to have a previous phone conversation before meeting in a public place. Then, once they meet, if the impression is positive on both sides, all the possibilities are open.

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A widespread fantasy: wild sexual encounters with strangers

There are women though who have a much more straightforward approach to online dating. One of the best examples I have lived myself was with a girl who, after a short period of mails and pictures exchange, sent me a SMS one Saturday evening proposing me to meet at the entry of the swingers club Momentos in Madrid that very night; proposal that I willingly accepted in what ended up becoming a glorious night.

There are however an increasing number of modalities of Internet dating that go beyond the usual girl-boy encounter; one of which is that of couples looking for a very specific kind of threesome. I often receive proposals myself in that respect through this website, some of which have led to extremely hot experiences. There is particularly a very recent one, that I keep vividly in my mind, with an Australian couple travelling around Europe. They had contacted me before getting to Madrid and, once here, I met them near their hotel for a drink. Then, a short conversation was enough for the guy to propose me to accompany them to their room and have a wild fuck with his 25 year old girlfriend, while he remained a silent and overexcited spectator.

All of these experiences have proved me that people (and very particularly women) from places like North America or Australia tend to regard online dating in a much more natural way than here in Spain or Europe in general. It is as if we felt ashamed for taking advantage of technology in that deeply human quest for love and sex we all need to carry out. But there is also something very cultural in it, particularly as regards women’s real (and not just apparent) independence: Just like you will never see a 20 y.o. Spanish girl backpacking alone around the USA or Australia, and you will see the contrary pretty often; you will hardly find a Spanish or European woman trying online dating as a way to fulfil sexual fantasies in their own countries, but rather an American female expat trying the same thing in those very countries and finding it perfectly normal.

Because, in the end, the use of online dating can go way beyond the mere fact of meeting with someone. It can really mean exploring our deepest desires and defying the greatest taboos of our respective cultures. It is not without reason that the brain is often presented as the most powerful sex organ.
So my advice in this regard is simple: Be sensible but not prejudiced. Once you are perfectly aware of the dangers the Internet represents, the moment has come to enjoy all of its possibilities.


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Swinging in Barcelona or in Madrid? Comparison

The two major Spanish cities often become a source of dispute when comparing any of the various and indisputable charms they both offer to their visitors. My opinion in this respect has always been as clear as diplomatic: Barcelona and Madrid are terribly different but equally interesting whatever you are looking for.

I am perfectly aware though that most of you, readers, have landed on this page actually looking for a very specific sort of information: one that might enlighten you on the endless swinger opportunities that both cities undeniably offer, as well as on the similarities and differences that can be found in this regard between the two.

I will therefore start by highlighting the vast number of swingers clubs available in both Madrid and Barcelona; a number that also seems to be permanently on the rise despite the persistent and harsh economic crisis. The explanation must be that, despite the economic restrains, sexual imagination remains one of the most powerful tools to try to face life with optimism.

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“Oops Barcelona”, one of the best swingers clubs in Europe

There is however one remarkable difference between the swingers clubs of the two cities in general terms: The atmosphere of the Barcelona clubs is usually a bit more cosmopolitan and sophisticated; while that of Madrid tends to offer a much more local and straightforward approach. I have always been absolutely amazed, in this respect, about the fact that I have never in my life seen one single Madrid club offering information on their website in a language other than Spanish; whereas it is quite frequent among the Barcelona clubs to offer their information in at least Spanish, Catalan, French and English.

So if you go to Barcelona there are mainly three visits you shouldn’t miss: the first one is the newly-created Oops Barcelona, an absolutely fabulous venue that has rapidly become the main reference among the Spanish swingers clubs. The second is Training Pedralbes, one of the oldest and best-known clubs in our country. The third option I propose requires taking a thirty-minute car drive from the city-centre, after which we will get to La Masía, a big house with outdoor area located in the countryside.

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“Encuentros”, the most renowned swingers club in Madrid

Madrid, on the other hand, does not offer as yet any swinger country-house located in the outskirts of the city; nor even any outdoor areas in the urban clubs (“Oops Barcelona” is really outstanding in that regard); which is truly a shame given the torrid summer of the Spanish capital. There is however one option, especially advisable for the wintertime, that you cannot find in Barcelona for now: Cap Madrid, an amazing swinger spa with excellent facilities.
Other swingers clubs you shouldn’t miss in Madrid are Encuentros, Fusión and Momentos.

So whichever of the two cities you choose, you will hardly find a better European capital for swinger purposes. Probably only Berlin can compete.


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“Elixir de Fuego”, swingers club in Majorca: interview

It is now time for Majorca in our tireless tour around Spain visiting the most exciting swingers clubs in the country. Today we become the guests of Michaela and Sascha, the couple who runs the oldest and best-known swingers club in this idyllic island: El Elixir de Fuego.

Tell us a bit about the history of the club and the experience of you both as a swinger couple.
The club “Elixir de Fuego” has existed for over 20 years now. It was the first swingers club here in Majorca. We took over the business in 2012.
We are not a usual swingers couple, who used to visit clubs too often before we started to run this business. Of course we are swingers too, but we are not extreme swingers. We like the erotic atmosphere of clubs like ours and, of course, we like trying new experiences with others too.

The “Elixir de Fuego” has been for many years the main swinger reference in the island. What makes your club special?
There are a few things to be mentioned. Firstly the special atmosphere we offer here. It is on the one hand familiar and private, just like “coming home”. The club is clean and comfortable as well as elegant and exclusive.
On the other hand, it is also quite what our guests make of it themselves. Our international clientele is always very nice, knows how to respect each other and offers a mixture of ages ranging from 25 up to 60.

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We all know Majorca is a very international gathering place. How international is the atmosphere in your club?
During the high season, which goes for us from March till October, you can say that 50% of our guests are Spaniards. The other 50% mostly comes from Germany (or German speaking countries), but for sure we have guests from all over Europe.
We also have guests from South and North America and also Asia, which is not as rare as it might seem.

Many swinger readers of this interview, who have not yet been to your club, will be wondering what the facilities are like. What can we tell them?
We have a huge bar and lounge area with comfortable furniture. There are also five rooms for pure pleasure: a dark-room, a separée, our glory-hole room with our love swing, a small and a big playground… Of course we offer a shower (big enough for two persons) and bathrooms for ladies and gentlemen. Last but not least, we have a smokers-area too.

Are there any specific rules to access the club?
Well, please don´t visit us in “normal” streetwear. Pick up a nice, maybe erotic, dress and for men modern jeans with a nice shirt. That´s all. Single men are asked to change their clothes directly. You can also move around in lingerie or just naked. What matters is to feel good. We offer “pareos” for the night too!

The “Elixir de Fuego” is located at Can Pastilla, in Playa de Palma, a very accessible spot few kilometres away from downtown Palma. Please, give us some tips on how to get there at night.
Either on foot taking a walk along the seaside (we are by the Balneario 13), or by car: only seven minutes away from Palma. We are located just one hundred metres away from the famous Palma Aquarium.

Is it difficult for the customers to get a taxi back to their accommodation?
Absolutely not. We can call a taxi for any of our guests to pick them up at the door.

Majorca also provides some wonderful natural settings for nudity lovers: Playa del Mago, Es Trenc… What is your opinion about the nude beaches that can be found in the island?
There is little more that can be said about Es Trenc: a lovely beach, largely visited by nudists. But there are also some other places here for nudity lovers. People must understand though that we don´t want to talk about the fantastic secrets Majorca offers on an open platform. We anyway give many recommendations to our customers about places to visit when they directly ask us.

That is a very sensible policy indeed. I often feel guilty when I speak about beaches on my website… Let’s now put a beautiful end to the interview with some excellent piece of advice for swingers coming to Majorca. What can we tell them?
Just be open-minded and you will enjoy a fantastic erotic night with some wonderful people from all over the world. Don’t hesitate: come to Majorca!


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Exploring the swingers hotel-club Liberty Loft in San Antonio (Ibiza)

Going to Ibiza and looking for sex is something as natural as sunbathing on one of its idyllic beaches. The general atmosphere, heat and nudity necessarily call for it, although I don’t usually need much environmental support.

This was the first time I had planned to visit Liberty Loft, among the many occasions I have been to it afterwards on my several holidays in the island. I remember sending an e-mail asking for information about the prospect of making an occasional visit as a single guy, and I received a prompt and detailed reply from the hotel with all the relevant details, which is much more than can be said of many other businesses in the profession.

So the procedure was simple: two were the days of the week reserved for single men to visit Liberty Loft: Tuesdays and Fridays. The quite reasonable price included the possibility of coming in and out of the hotel as many times as you wished within the day. There was one condition though: the hotel management always requested previous phone booking, so as to prevent an excessive number of guys coming up and spoiling the fun (something which seems to be part of about every club’s policy in theory, but maybe not that much in practice).liberty loft swinger libertin echangiste hotel club Ibiza san antonio

I therefore called there many times to make my bookings without ever feeling under the risk that it would be refused for an excessive number of guys already confirmed. My intuition for such things is always infallible, I must say. Very soon I also found out that going there before lunchtime did not make much sense, as most of the couples were out at the beach or visiting the island (a few also still sleeping after a busy night).

Liberty Loft seemed to have all that was necessary to provide a wonderful time in it: an exciting pool area, as well as an interesting variety of indoor spaces to give free rein to fantasy. It was actually a place that instantly reminded me something I have always been convinced of: going swinging in couple is the best of options, but going alone as a man has an excitement of its own; the sole drawback is that ignorance and short-term greed make it practically impossible to find a decent place for this wonderful practice.

The hotel is run by a young couple: Daniel (French) and Heli (Estonian), with whom communication is also possible in Spanish and English. One of the peculiarities of the place used to be related to the wintertime job of the outspoken Daniel: working for a porno film festival in France. That is why visiting the hotel slightly out of the very high season usually involved ascertaining that its occupancy rate would have been rather low hadn’t it been for the presence of people linked, in one way or other, to the porno business of our neighbouring country, obviously invited to the place to give it some animation when the availability of rooms was higher than desirable.

This habit was taken even further, as you could sometimes meet spectators from the festival who had won a prize during its celebration consisting of a stay at the hotel. All of which makes me wonder what sort of philosophical theory is applied to reach the conclusion that working in the porno business involves being a swinger. Furthermore, I am just dumbstruck at the notion that being a tireless porno spectator makes of you a suitable person to be invited to a swinger hotel.

However, all that is not even the most outstanding of the peculiarities Liberty Loft  offers as a swinger business. On my first contacts with the place, I got instantly intrigued at the fact that the hotel offered (they even specified it on their advertising) to its customers free tickets to access the most celebrated dance-mega-clubs in Ibiza. And, of course, nobody would expect those tickets to grow on trees. So just two or three visits to the place tend to be more than enough to ascertain where that magic availability of tickets is coming from.

Firstly, the number of single men in the place is always remarkably high for a club that operates with all that “previous booking” paraphernalia. Second, some of the single men who visit the club do so with no need of previous booking and, what is even better, without paying any entry-fee whatsoever. Third, the members of that privileged group are usually PR staff from the mega-dance-clubs, who provide Daniel with tickets for his customers in return for his generosity at letting them in for free. And four, that generosity also includes quite a preferential treatment by Daniel in his tireless (and usually unsolicited) assistance as middleman between customers, consisting on giving priority to his friends at getting in touch with couples looking for male flesh.

All of that should be more than enough as a mood-killer for such a naive soul like mine, but Daniel seems to perform a year-round training that invigorates him to endlessly place himself right in the midst of every possible exciting situation that might be in store, theoretically just in order to facilitate interaction… Something like having a sex counsellor permanently in bed right next to you blocking your access to your wife, with nobody having asked for his advice.

But come on guys, don’t get me wrong: I encourage you all to go and visit Liberty Loft. You will probably not have the best sex in your life but, at least, you will learn a lot about how to run a swinger business with discretion and wisdom. And, anyway, should that not be enough for you, you can always try to become a PR staff-member of any Ibiza macro-disco. Don’t you forget in that case to bring your condoms (as well as your free tickets) with you.

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