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“Swingers Midnight Club”, the meeting point in Andalusia: interview

The Algeciras bay is an idyllic spot located in the southernmost end of the European continent. Today we are travelling there to try to find out a bit more about Swingers Midnight, a club that has rapidly become the main reference for swingers in southern Spain. One of his managers, Fran, welcomes us and guides us through the secrets of this exciting place, on a tour in which he will also provide us with some useful views about Spain’s swinger scene.

- Hello Fran and thanks for giving us this chance to discover at first hand the wonders of “Swingers Midnight”.
My pleasure. I am sure you will not be disappointed.

- I am sure we will not. So one of the most surprising things about your club is that, despite its great reputation, it is quite new actually. I mean, only one year after its creation “Swingers Midnight” has become the reference swingers club in the whole of Andalusia. What has been the key to this success?
There are several factors to be considered. Firstly the design of our facilities, but also the location and the organisation of events very carefully conceived for our members and guests. I would also point out our permanent interaction with lovers of the swinger lifestyle through social media, at both national and international level.club echangiste libertin cadix malaga

- And how did you come up with the idea of creating this club?
Our main motivation was to fill the existing void around the area where we are located, bringing forward an original concept highly based on what we would like to find when visiting a club.

- You offer a privileged location, halfway between the Costa of Cadiz and the Costa del Sol. What percentage of your customers are tourists?
We receive many visits from couples who choose the coast of Cadiz and Malaga as their holiday destination, especially during the high season.
Our situation is anyway perfect to travel to from any spot in Andalusia and spend a weekend in the area, thus having the chance to meet many local couples who visit us regularly.

- This is also an area with many international residents and visitors. Is there much variety of nationalities among your clientele?
Yes there is, given the proximity of Gibraltar and the Costa del Sol with their large communities of residents from different countries. There is actually a great cultural mixture in the area.swingers midnight club andalusia

- Thanks to southern Spain’s privileged weather, one of the main attractions of “Swingers Midnight” is its outdoor spaces. How would you describe your facilities to someone who has not yet visited you?
The weather is certainly a great advantage, so that we can enjoy our open-air facilities from April to October. These outdoor areas consist of two really broad terraces: a lower one by the banks of the Guadarranque river, and an upper one overlooking the river. We also have a saltwater pool illuminated for night baths, as well as bali beds, deck chairs…
Besides the surrounding environment is an absolutely privileged one, offering a wonderful contact with nature. It is even possible to behold the pilgrimage of migratory birds on their way to Africa.

- In the last few years the number of swingers clubs in Spain has rocketed thanks to a growing demand. What do you think makes your club different to others?
It is true that there are more and more clubs coming up all over the Spanish territory to meet that increasing demand you have mentioned, which is the result of the popularity the swinger scene has attained among young couples.
The current public is demanding a party-like atmosphere, not too different from the one you can find in any nightlife venue for the general public, with the extra of providing exciting spaces for erotic games.
What we offer is a nice party environment, varied events to suit everybody’s tastes, high-quality games areas and a personalized attention to couples, both in the club and through the social media and our website.swingers club cadiz malaga costa del sol

- Are there any admission rules to be observed by anyone willing to visit you?
We are a private association and we reserve the right to allow entrance to just those guests who accept to abide by our internal rules, which basically involve a proper and respectful behaviour. That is the key to offer a nice environment to all our members and visitors. Other than that, we only admit couples and single ladies. Single men are never allowed in, either alone or accompanying a couple.

- Is it necessary to book in advance or can the customers just go there directly?
For organizational reasons we highly appreciate that the couples interested in taking part in an event communicate with us beforehand. There are several social media through which it is possible to sign up for our events, as well as our website.

- I guess most of your customers get to the club using their own car. How could we explain them the easiest way to get there?
Our club has a private parking. Besides there is a large parking area in the surroundings. “Swingers Midnight” is located in Guadacorte (Los Barrios, Cádiz), by the river Guadarranque, right in the midst of the Algeciras bay and few minutes away from Gibraltar, Algeciras, La Línea, Sotogrande and Marbella. It is easily reachable from the AP7 motorway (exit 113b). The exact location is Avenida Las Golondrinas 3.swingers club marbella estepona chiclana sotogrande gibraltar algeciras benalmadena tarifa fuengirola

- Given that many of the “Swingers Midnight” visitors are tourists, which places around the area could we recommend them to visit: towns, villages, beaches, landscapes…?
There are many places and beaches to visit around the Campo de Gibraltar area. Beginning with Sotogrande, the Alcaidesa area in La Línea de la Concepción with its blue flag beaches… Also visiting and going shopping to Gibraltar, the town of Tarifa with all of its history and idyllic beaches, the Castellar castle, the Alcornocales park… The leisure and tourism offer is extremely varied and interesting.

- Being very familiar with the swinger environment as you obviously are, why do you think there is an increasing number of people interested in this lifestyle?
It is difficult to give a short answer to that. There are many couples experiencing an evolution in the way they understand their relationship, especially in the sexual side of it, so that they have become more receptive to live new experiences. Besides there are currently many reference websites providing reliable and useful information about the swinger atmosphere, which helps many couples to get answers to their curiosity and take that first step forward.

- And just to put an end to the interview, please tell us what your favourite swingers clubs in Spain are.
We know many swingers clubs in Spain and we especially like “Udara” in Barcelona and “Fusion” in Madrid.

 


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“Oops Barcelona”, the ultimate swingers club: report and customer reviews

Saturday night. Lisa and I get off our taxi. The area is easily accessible by car and parking does not seem much of a challenge. We just thought it safer to take a taxi, as we are not too familiar with moving around Barcelona.

This is the most elegant district in the Catalan capital: Pedralbes, and we are about to access what has become, in a very short time, the most luxurious and reputed swingers club in the whole of Spain: Oops Barcelona, a venue which seems to be on the way to challenge the hegemony of the Dutch Fun4Two as the best swingers club in Europe. oops meilleur club libertin echangiste barcelone images espagne europe

The mere sight of the building is already breathtaking. We seem to find it extremely exciting that the luxurious modernist mansion located before us, with that careful and elegant illumination, is actually housing the club we are so eager to find more about. Very soon we start to satisfy our curiosity. We access the building finding ourselves right at the cloakroom area, where we are kindly informed on the entry fee and what it includes. This is a Saturday night, so the price is 50 Euros per couple, including four long-drinks and locker use. We are given a magnetic bracelet to open the locker, identify our jackets at the cloakroom, and register the number of drinks we finally have. Quite a futuristic start…

A heavy curtain then makes way for the venue itself, leading us straight into the bar area, where several rows of sofas unmistakably suggest its suitability for the beginning of games. Without moving from this ground floor, we also inspect the dark-room and the entrance to the disco, to which we will arrive after going along a broad and beautiful corridor that will pass through a lovely garden with a pool, very suitable for the summertime action. oops best swingers club Barcelona pictures photos spain europe

The disco is great: fully equipped with bar, sofas, seats, tables… Everything perfectly prepared for the space where most of the couples gather and negotiate all sorts of dirty businesses. There is even a small sado-room discretely situated under the staircase through which we will gain the first floor, where we find the locker-room. The lockers are impeccably arranged, each one containing a beach wrap for the ladies, loose-fitting trousers for the gents, a couple of towels, two pairs of flip-flops and a small toilet bag with two toothbrushes, toothpaste and mouthwash.

There is also a room with a large bed for about six persons, showers and toilets. Still going up all straight ahead we find another couple of rooms: One of them exhibits a truly huge bed clearly conceived for large scale sex. The other offers another quite impressive bed with a magnificent panorama of the city.swingers clubs Barcelona night sex

Once again we take a staircase that, on this occasion, will take us to the VIP area: a sort of large room with its own bar, seats and sofas. There is also a corridor with three beds separated by curtains, and an additional big bed from where we behold Barcelona from a different perspective. From the bar we access a lovely terrace. As we were told, this whole VIP area can be hired for exclusive use in private parties, and there is even no need to go through the rest of the venue to get to it: there is an elevator close to the main entrance that directly takes the guests into this particular oasis.

Anyhow, Lisa and I hadn’t gone to “Oops Barcelona” from Madrid to just admire the impressive setting we had been moving around for almost an hour. So yeah, you guessed, quite soon the few clothes we were still taking on started to bother us as some verbal (and non-verbal) communication with other couples led us to test some of the beds in a less visual manner.

I must say that the crowd gathering at Oops is extremely varied in all respects. Couples of different ages, many locals from Barcelona as well as  a relevant number of national and international visitors tend to create quite a stimulating atmosphere where it is difficult not to find what you are looking for. Some of the people we met also gave us some very useful information on what this wonderful club has meant to the Barcelona swinger community.clubs echangistes libertins barcelone sexe nuit

Paula says: “This is by far the best swingers club I have ever been to, even though we cannot complain about the rest of the offer we have in Barcelona. Anyway, since we came here for the first time it is difficult to find us elsewhere… We have also been to some private parties in Oops and, although different, the atmosphere is also great”.

Mireia: “Our favourite club in Barcelona used to be “Events”, but being in the outskirts of the city it finally had to close. So right now I really think Oops is the best swingers club in Barcelona, in close competition with “Training Pedralbes”, which is trailing slightly behind as the facilities are not this good. Anyway, we like changing so we are always visiting different clubs. I must admit though that the Oops staff are really wonderful and the place is glamorous indeed”.

Albert: “We loved it since the first time we came. The atmosphere is great, the facilities indescribable, the decoration extremely elegant… Also the staff members are really nice. So ever since we discovered Oops we have not been much interested in visiting other clubs here in Barcelona, although there are quite a few”.

Sandra: “There is no other club like this one all over Barcelona, and the people who come here are usually very good-looking…”.

It therefore looks like any swinger couple visiting Barcelona should check it out for themselves…

Oops Barcelona Swingers Club
Calle Anglí 69, Barcelona
Ph: (0034)93.667.78.15
Website
e-mail: info@oopsbarcelona.com
Open: From Thursday to Sunday all year round.
Admission policy: Only couples and single ladies.
Dress code: Elegant, sexy, dominant… (just avoid vulgarity!). 


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“Spice Lanzarote”: a swingers resort in the mainstream media

I have already praised on this blog the remarkable and quite ground-breaking marketing policy performed by Spice Lanzarote, probably the best swingers hotel and resort in Europe. And that is particularly laudable given the fact that most swinging places, still today, absolutely ignore the great importance of finding effective ways to reach their audience and convey to them what a proper swinger environment can provide a couple: relax, pleasure, health, a far deeper insight into oneself and the partner, as well as a wonderful improvement in the quality of the relationship between the two.

You can see below an excellent interview with Tracy Isted (Spice Lanzarote director) at one of the most successful tv shows of ITV channel in the UK. As you will have the chance of ascertaining, most of the questions are based on the ignorance and prejudices that still prevail about swinging among much of our society. Tracy, for her part, answers them all proving a great talent as a communicator, thanks to which the concept of “swinging” is explained to a heterogeneous audience most naturally. I especially like when she says: “It is the woman who is in control”, which is completely true.

For those of you who want to find out more about “Spice Lanzarote”, check out this highly motivating video about this fantastic resort located in a fairy-tale island.


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The taboo of online dating in Spain

One of the wonderful achievements the Internet has brought forward is the possibility of getting two people together who would, otherwise, have ignored each other’s existence.
Too often, thinking about the wonderful experiences I have lived thanks to the net, I realize that my life (and particularly my sex life) would have been much poorer without this technological achievement which, like most technological achievements, can be extremely profitable for any human being when used properly.

We live in a world of appearances though: we must conceal that we love sex, we must conceal that we masturbate, we must conceal that we feel attraction for someone, we must conceal that we visit swingers clubs, we must conceal any inopportune erection in a nude beach, and we must indeed conceal that we have ever used the Internet for any sort of dating. In a word, doing something any mentally healthy person should do is often collectively regarded as sick.

In that particular regard, Spain is as full of prejudices a country as any other from the western world, but there is one prejudice that I find especially persistent in this country and seems to be deeply rooted in its culture: the prejudice of online dating. Although to be fully honest I should say it is quite a European prejudice indeed. Just compare the huge difference with the USA in terms of using online dating tools, success in its use, and –most of all- social acceptance of online dating as a perfectly natural way of establishing all sorts of relationships between people.

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The net can be a gateway to your deepest sexual fantasies

It is quite obvious anyway that what each person looks for through online dating can be extremely varied: Some look for just a friendship that could be leading to something else, some look for love and romance, and some simply just look for different sorts of sexual experiences. Needless to say though that single ladies who have a true interest in online dating have to be extremely careful when meeting a man for the first time as, true as it is that many of them are usually polite and reliable, there can always be exceptions.

One of the best encounters I have ever had through online dating was with a lovely American lady from Pennsylvania, with whom I keep regularly in touch and meet whenever she returns to Madrid (about once a year). My experience with her has provided me a very thorough insight of what online dating can represent for a woman willing to fulfil her deepest sexual desires. She has always been really interested in this sort of encounters; which does not mean at all that she has been meeting men too often through this procedure. In fact, she is extremely demanding about the impression a man has to convey to her before accepting a date of this kind.

This woman is extremely beautiful, very well-educated, with a strong personality and a very clear approach to sex: she is a non-monogamous person who achieves extreme sexual arousal by meeting men for the first time surrounded by an intensely erotic background. The way in which she approaches online dating can be quite interesting for many women: She normally performs a previous analysis on which men she might find interesting through the ads they publish or the responses she gets to her ads; after which she engages in a correspondence with the candidates that usually involves exchanging pictures. One of the conditions she imposes on any possible partner is to have a previous phone conversation before meeting in a public place. Then, once they meet, if the impression is positive on both sides, all the possibilities are open.

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A widespread fantasy: wild sexual encounters with strangers

There are women though who have a much more straightforward approach to online dating. One of the best examples I have lived myself was with a girl who, after a short period of mails and pictures exchange, sent me a SMS one Saturday evening proposing me to meet at the entry of the swingers club Momentos in Madrid that very night; proposal that I willingly accepted in what ended up becoming a glorious night.

There are however an increasing number of modalities of Internet dating that go beyond the usual girl-boy encounter; one of which is that of couples looking for a very specific kind of threesome. I often receive proposals myself in that respect through this website, some of which have led to extremely hot experiences. There is particularly a very recent one, that I keep vividly in my mind, with an Australian couple travelling around Europe. They had contacted me before getting to Madrid and, once here, I met them near their hotel for a drink. Then, a short conversation was enough for the guy to propose me to accompany them to their room and have a wild fuck with his 25 year old girlfriend, while he remained a silent and overexcited spectator.

All of these experiences have proved me that people (and very particularly women) from places like North America or Australia tend to regard online dating in a much more natural way than here in Spain or Europe in general. It is as if we felt ashamed for taking advantage of technology in that deeply human quest for love and sex we all need to carry out. But there is also something very cultural in it, particularly as regards women’s real (and not just apparent) independence: Just like you will never see a 20 y.o. Spanish girl backpacking alone around the USA or Australia, and you will see the contrary pretty often; you will hardly find a Spanish or European woman trying online dating as a way to fulfil sexual fantasies in their own countries, but rather an American female expat trying the same thing in those very countries and finding it perfectly normal.

Because, in the end, the use of online dating can go way beyond the mere fact of meeting with someone. It can really mean exploring our deepest desires and defying the greatest taboos of our respective cultures. It is not without reason that the brain is often presented as the most powerful sex organ.
So my advice in this regard is simple: Be sensible but not prejudiced. Once you are perfectly aware of the dangers the Internet represents, the moment has come to enjoy all of its possibilities.


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Swinging in Barcelona or in Madrid? Comparison

The two major Spanish cities often become a source of dispute when comparing any of the various and indisputable charms they both offer to their visitors. My opinion in this respect has always been as clear as diplomatic: Barcelona and Madrid are terribly different but equally interesting whatever you are looking for.

I am perfectly aware though that most of you, readers, have landed on this page actually looking for a very specific sort of information: one that might enlighten you on the endless swinger opportunities that both cities undeniably offer, as well as on the similarities and differences that can be found in this regard between the two.

I will therefore start by highlighting the vast number of swingers clubs available in both Madrid and Barcelona; a number that also seems to be permanently on the rise despite the persistent and harsh economic crisis. The explanation must be that, despite the economic restrains, sexual imagination remains one of the most powerful tools to try to face life with optimism.

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“Oops Barcelona”, one of the best swingers clubs in Europe

There is however one remarkable difference between the swingers clubs of the two cities in general terms: The atmosphere of the Barcelona clubs is usually a bit more cosmopolitan and sophisticated; while that of Madrid tends to offer a much more local and straightforward approach. I have always been absolutely amazed, in this respect, about the fact that I have never in my life seen one single Madrid club offering information on their website in a language other than Spanish; whereas it is quite frequent among the Barcelona clubs to offer their information in at least Spanish, Catalan, French and English.

So if you go to Barcelona there are mainly three visits you shouldn’t miss: the first one is the newly-created Oops Barcelona, an absolutely fabulous venue that has rapidly become the main reference among the Spanish swingers clubs. The second is Training Pedralbes, one of the oldest and best-known clubs in our country. The third option I propose requires taking a thirty-minute car drive from the city-centre, after which we will get to La Masía, a big house with outdoor area located in the countryside.

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“Encuentros”, the most renowned swingers club in Madrid

Madrid, on the other hand, does not offer as yet any swinger country-house located in the outskirts of the city; nor even any outdoor areas in the urban clubs (“Oops Barcelona” is really outstanding in that regard); which is truly a shame given the torrid summer of the Spanish capital. There is however one option, especially advisable for the wintertime, that you cannot find in Barcelona for now: Cap Madrid, an amazing swinger spa with excellent facilities.
Other swingers clubs you shouldn’t miss in Madrid are Encuentros, Fusión and Momentos.

So whichever of the two cities you choose, you will hardly find a better European capital for swinger purposes. Probably only Berlin can compete.


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“Elixir de Fuego”, swingers club in Majorca: interview

It is now time for Majorca in our tireless tour around Spain visiting the most exciting swingers clubs in the country. Today we become the guests of Michaela and Sascha, the couple who runs the oldest and best-known swingers club in this idyllic island: El Elixir de Fuego.

Tell us a bit about the history of the club and the experience of you both as a swinger couple.
The club “Elixir de Fuego” has existed for over 20 years now. It was the first swingers club here in Majorca. We took over the business in 2012.
We are not a usual swingers couple, who used to visit clubs too often before we started to run this business. Of course we are swingers too, but we are not extreme swingers. We like the erotic atmosphere of clubs like ours and, of course, we like trying new experiences with others too.

The “Elixir de Fuego” has been for many years the main swinger reference in the island. What makes your club special?
There are a few things to be mentioned. Firstly the special atmosphere we offer here. It is on the one hand familiar and private, just like “coming home”. The club is clean and comfortable as well as elegant and exclusive.
On the other hand, it is also quite what our guests make of it themselves. Our international clientele is always very nice, knows how to respect each other and offers a mixture of ages ranging from 25 up to 60.

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We all know Majorca is a very international gathering place. How international is the atmosphere in your club?
During the high season, which goes for us from March till October, you can say that 50% of our guests are Spaniards. The other 50% mostly comes from Germany (or German speaking countries), but for sure we have guests from all over Europe.
We also have guests from South and North America and also Asia, which is not as rare as it might seem.

Many swinger readers of this interview, who have not yet been to your club, will be wondering what the facilities are like. What can we tell them?
We have a huge bar and lounge area with comfortable furniture. There are also five rooms for pure pleasure: a dark-room, a separée, our glory-hole room with our love swing, a small and a big playground… Of course we offer a shower (big enough for two persons) and bathrooms for ladies and gentlemen. Last but not least, we have a smokers-area too.

Are there any specific rules to access the club?
Well, please don´t visit us in “normal” streetwear. Pick up a nice, maybe erotic, dress and for men modern jeans with a nice shirt. That´s all. Single men are asked to change their clothes directly. You can also move around in lingerie or just naked. What matters is to feel good. We offer “pareos” for the night too!

The “Elixir de Fuego” is located at Can Pastilla, in Playa de Palma, a very accessible spot few kilometres away from downtown Palma. Please, give us some tips on how to get there at night.
Either on foot taking a walk along the seaside (we are by the Balneario 13), or by car: only seven minutes away from Palma. We are located just one hundred metres away from the famous Palma Aquarium.

Is it difficult for the customers to get a taxi back to their accommodation?
Absolutely not. We can call a taxi for any of our guests to pick them up at the door.

Majorca also provides some wonderful natural settings for nudity lovers: Playa del Mago, Es Trenc… What is your opinion about the nude beaches that can be found in the island?
There is little more that can be said about Es Trenc: a lovely beach, largely visited by nudists. But there are also some other places here for nudity lovers. People must understand though that we don´t want to talk about the fantastic secrets Majorca offers on an open platform. We anyway give many recommendations to our customers about places to visit when they directly ask us.

That is a very sensible policy indeed. I often feel guilty when I speak about beaches on my website… Let’s now put a beautiful end to the interview with some excellent piece of advice for swingers coming to Majorca. What can we tell them?
Just be open-minded and you will enjoy a fantastic erotic night with some wonderful people from all over the world. Don’t hesitate: come to Majorca!

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